I was now taking note of what I was eating to see if something I ate was going through my breast milk and causing her to be unhappy. I also researched certain foods that mother's eat that are irritants to breast-fed babies. One thing that kept coming up article after article was cow's milk. This was something I wasn't too thrilled to try because as you know from reading my previous blog post about pregnancy cravings, I LOVE milk, pregnant or not. But, if giving up something I love means having a happy, comfortable baby, then it's definitely worth a try! The story is about to get even happier... After about a week, we were beginning to notice a difference. There were less periods of crying, and we were even getting to bed a little earlier. But... something was still bothering her. You'd think we'd just kept that darn detective hat on, right?!
At this point we were about ready to throw that stupid exercise ball out the window and just let her cry! But for those of you who know me, you'd know I'd never let that happen. I know it's healthy to let your baby cry every now at then, but that's when she's crying for no reason... she's been fed, she's been changed, she's not in pain... but I knew there was a reason for why she was crying, so I just could't stand by and let it happen. We even went as far as to give her Mylicon, an anti-gas med for babies (it seemed to have helped Ava when she was a newborn), not necessarily because she had a significant amount of gas or that the gas she did have was possibly causing her pain, but mostly because we were running out of ideas.
Our next thought was to see if there was a baby contraption on the market that did the same thing we were doing on the exercise ball. We had seen those baby bouncers that are available but didn't think those would work because they only bounce if the baby causes it to bounce. We needed something to just do it on it's own. So, while we were shopping in Target one day with the girls, we were walking through the baby section and there it was... Bright Starts Automatic Bouncer. We had to have it! Our backs were already starting to feel better as we were going through the check-out. Once we were home, we had to try it. At first she seemed a little satisfied, but it wasn't soon after that she realized it was just a machine... it wasn't human. And there we were... right back in the same boat.
* Paccies may help soothe a fussy baby. Babies like sucking on something. The sucking motion makes them feel safe and provides comfort.
* Paccies help babies fall asleep.This probably goes back to the fact that babies like having something to suck on.
* Sucking on a paccie promotes oral muscle function and development.
* If breast-feeding is well established, a paccie won't interfere with nursing or cause nipple confusion.
* Paccies can cause dependence. If your baby likes to fall asleep to a paccie, you may have a long night ahead of you, having to get up and put the paccie in her mouth every time she wakes up.
* Prolonged pacifier use may lead to dental problems.
With all those positive reasons to use a paccie and very few negatives, I was ready to give it a try. And I'm sooo glad we did. We can now rock in our rocker with Audrey, sit on a non-moving chair, place her in her automatic bouncer or swing, and even lie her down all by herself... all with the help of that incredible little plastic nipple... the Pacifier!
The paccie has even provided relief for us when it's time for bed. Instead of bouncing on that ball for hours upon hours night after night, we lay her down in bed beside us, and hold in the paccie for just a little while, until she falls asleep. Thankfully we only have to do this initially when going to bed and not every time she wakes up to feed during the night.
Audrey takes the soothie paccie... mostly because that's the one we tried her with. With the little finger insert, it allows us to keep it in her mouth while providing a warm, human-like sensation for her. I'm not sure what results come from the nuk vs. platex vs. soothie debate. We just know that this paccie is working, so there's no need to try a different one. Although, one downside to using the soothie paccie was the fact I had to constantly pick it up off the ground every time she would pop it out of her mouth. Most of the paccie clips on the market, that I had seen, were made for paccies with a handle. And as you can see from the picture I took above, the soothie paccie doesn't have a handle.
Amazon made specifically for soothie paccies that even works for paccies with handles. Modern Marvels! I just got it in the mail two days ago, and so far I love it! Now when I'm holding Audrey in one hand, the paccie clip allows me to functionally be able to use my other hand, and no worries now if she pops it out.
Keep in mind that we don't give Audrey the paccie all the time. We first see if she can handle being without it. We want her to eventually be able to find other ways to comfort herself. But when she gets fussy and isn't satisfied with just rocking or swinging or whatever, then in goes the paccie, and all is well.
So, thankfully, this story does have a happy ending.
Audrey is happier. Mommy is happier. Life is good :)
Audrey enjoying her paccie.
Big sister, Ava, helping :)